How old are you, Michael
The doctor asked my dad
And then he said
Those sweet words of release
I think you’ve done enough, don’t you
My father breathed a sigh
He’d worked so hard all of his life
Now he could have a lie
Down the mines at fourteen years
Then the army call
Then a war of six years toll
That’s no free for all
Then the mine and then ill health
Then odd jobs here and there
Trying to do his bit you know
But struggling for air
And then this day the doctor said
Those words of sweet release
My father couldn’t tell himself
Couldn’t give himself that peace
The doctor’s word confirmed for him
The truth he knew inside
I’ve done my best all I can do
Now to retire with pride
Brian Fahy
23 January 2022
+ Dr Gavin Francis has written a book, Recovery:The Lost Art of Convalescence, about the importance of convalescence in helping us to be well. See the article in today’s Observer by Emma Beddington. It reminded me of the day my father finally retired from a lifetime of work when his doctor, as it were, gave him permission to enjoy his well-earned rest.